Friday morning mom comes to me and tells me that she can't marry Willie (whew). I ask her why, and she just says she can't. I said did something happen? She said Willie's family doesnt want her to marry him, and that she had been thinking about it and just can't.
I told her that I thought she was making a good decision, for many reasons. 1) it might mess up their disability, 2) they couldnt live on their own, etc.
She said, thats what the director of the clubhouse said. I said, listen to him, he's wise about these types of things. (he also calls me and tells me whats going on up at the club house with mom).
I'm glad she came to this decision on her "own" because I didnt really want to have to use my power of attorney to stop something inappropriate.
The spot on her head is getting bigger - she will not leave it alone! The director called me the other day to make sure I knew about the bald spot. I told him I did and had shown her nurse prac, but she just wont leave it alone.
Today while the kids were out of the room, I said, mom, you realize your going to end up bald if you dont stop right? She just gave me a go to hades look and turned her head. Its so frustrating!!
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