The docs tweaked her meds, and I've noticed some improvement. She got a little SSD money so I was able to take her shopping for some new clothes. She needed some. I think she had fun. We went to Walmart first and out to lunch and then JCPenny's. She got a smart new pantsuit and wore it to church on Sunday.
A friend of hers called and took her to get a haircut Monday afternoon. Things like that help so much when you have a f/t job and two kids to run after and get hither and yon to their appointments. I'm greatful for that friend. I think Mom really enjoyed it.
Then she got a mani at the clubhouse. Too cute. So with new clothes, a new 'do and a mani, she feels like a new woman. And with some of the side effects lessened from the meds, I can tell she feels a little better. I've noticed a increase in appetite...that is a great thing.
I think we are headed in the right direction. I spoke to an "elder attorney" ugh I hate that term. Mom's not elderly. But these particular lawyers specialize in handling medicaid/medicare and long term care for people with dementias and other health care issues. Anyway, she was so sweet. (and free for two hours, that I can handle for sure!) and had lots of great ideas and resources for me. It was a good thing that I saw her. As I was leaving...she touched my arm and said "Your mom is so blessed to have you take care of her" From a complete stranger, who had no idea of the guilt I carried for not being able to do more...but those words, were very very needed.
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