Moving day

It was very anti-climatic.  She saw the sign for "whitfield" and nearly flipped, but once I said "you arent going to whitfield" she was fine - which even though she is, she isnt.  LOL "whitfield" is where they send 'crazy' people - and she isnt at the crazy people part.  So it wasnt total truth but in context of what she meant it was.

I really had very little to do - we moved her in, met the staff, they took us both on a tour.  I had to talk to the social worker and the doctor, and at about 11 mom was like "bye, you know where I am" LOL well, ok then.

It was hard, but I know its the right decision.  She seemed happier already - of course she claims to know everyone already.

I did have a moment with the doctor and nurses when I started crying - and this lady just arrived to visit her momma, and she gave me a big hug and told me that God knew everything, and that this was the best place - her mom has been their 3 years and staff is the same.  She also told me to visit as much as I could while mom knew me, b/c her mom doesnt know her anymore and she just wished she had come more.  Talk about God putting someone in the right place at the right time.

They are so NICE - everyone one of them you can tell is a calling.